'Keeping on' for what's right...
Today’s gospel
reading (Mark 7:24-37) gives us the account of a persistent woman begging Jesus
to heal her daughter. We are told that the daughter had an unclean spirit,
perhaps today we may recognise it as something like epilepsy, but whatever it
was it was damaging her life.
And so the mother
approached Jesus who initially seemed to reject her. But she persisted and
eventually her daughter was healed. And so in a way this just goes down as
another miracle of Jesus, but actually there is a little more to this account
as well.
The first thing
to look at was the attitude of the mother. This was a very pushy woman -
perhaps the sort of ardent feminist found on a bus one day. When she was
getting on a man just in front of her got up from his seat. She thought to
herself, "Here's another man trying to keep up the customs of a patriarchal
society by offering a poor, defenceless woman his seat," and so she pushed
him back onto the seat.
A few minutes later, the man tried to get up again. She
was insulted again and refused to let him get up.
Finally, the man
said, "Look, lady, you've got to let me get up. I'm two miles past my stop
already."
But being serious
this mother had a valid mission and she wouldn’t let anything distract her. She
approached Jesus knowing that the Jews didn’t like her people at all. She
approached him with the knowledge that she could well be rejected, but her love
for her daughter was obviously enough to persuade her to give this a try and
she wasn’t giving in easily.
And secondly we
look at the response of Jesus. He dismissed her, some have said as a joke, but
others have suggested that he was just rude to her. One thing that is clear is
that it really doesn’t seem like a normal response from him. When we think of
Jesus we think of love and compassion and care, and time for people in need.
So what was
really going on ? The reasons for the actions of the mother are very clear. She
believed that her daughter needed the sort of help that only Jesus could give.
Maybe she had tried everything else, and recognised that it was he alone who
could help. But what was Jesus doing ?
There are a
number of clues in the reading. First we are told that he was in Tyre in a
house and he didn’t want anyone to know he was there. He had clearly gone for a
well earned and probably much needed break from his ministry. I’m sure many of
you will know what it feels like to have a holiday interrupted by work or
people connected to your work. However nice the people may be, sometimes you
just need a break. And I think it’s encouraging to know that even Jesus felt
the same.
But secondly it
was a custom that women didn’t speak to men in public, and whilst Jesus broke
with many customs and traditions there were times when it would have been
sensible for him to stay in line for the good of his future ministry. This
woman was forcing him to break that custom. More than that she wasn’t even a
Jew – she was a Gentile – people who were often looked down on by Jews.
So Jesus had
reasonable grounds not to give her much attention. Others have suggested as a
kind of apology for Jesus’ behaviour that he was actually only joking, winding
the woman up before attending to her need as he’d always intended to.
But maybe this
doesn’t matter too much anyway, because we won’t know the real answer. But what
is really important is the faith and the determination of the mother, and
ultimately the response of Jesus. The mother’s example of love is one for us
all to admire. She wasn’t bothered what it cost her, as long as her daughter
got the right help. Her example of self sacrifice has been followed by many
people who have realised that they have found something important enough to
fight for.
We think of the
famous saying of Martin Luther King who said that unless you’ve found something
worth dying for, then you’ve not found anything worth living for. As Christians
we have a huge amount of work to do – things such as fighting injustice and
poverty in the world, working within our own communities, spreading the gospel
message through our own words and actions and so on…
The self
sacrificing love of the mother in this account was wonderful but it was nothing
compared to the love of Jesus as he died on the cross. That is the love we must
respond to as individuals and as a Church.
And through the
actions of this woman we are encouraged to be determined and persistent in all
that we do in Jesus’ name. Many times as we seek to share the gospel we will be
rejected, sometimes very clearly but sometimes just through indifference – but
we must never abandon that need to follow the command of Jesus to go and share
the gospel with all nations.
And perhaps there
was just one more reason why Jesus responded to this woman in the end, and
again it represents a lesson for us all. The last verse of the reading from the
epistle of James that we heard (2:17) is one of the most controversial of the
New Testament. He wrote, ‘So faith, by itself, if it has no works, is dead.’
You, like me,
will probably have been taught that faith in Jesus is enough by itself to gain
salvation. This verse from James seems to contradict this, but actually it
doesn’t. The clue for why not lies in the word ‘dead’. James is not saying that
a person who is not working for God is not a member of his kingdom – he is just
making the point that a living faith will inevitably lead us to respond to the
love of Jesus through our actions.
Those actions may
involve anything – from the busiest Christian worker, to the elderly housebound
person who prays regularly at home… Somebody once wrote that ‘I really only
love God as much as I love the person I love the least…’ A living faith will
mean a desire to serve God in everything that we do – as we make a cup of tea
for a friend, as we offer a prayer for someone in need, as we talk to someone
about our faith and hope in Jesus, as we work to relieve the pain and suffering
of others, such as those refugees caught up in horrible situations that we see…
A living faith
will help us to put aside irrelevant distractions and focus on God’s love for
us and all people…
And maybe when
Jesus responded to the woman he was acknowledging and perhaps reminding himself
and us that he had to do what he promised and that was to love and show
evidence of that love and compassion at all times, even those times when it was
inconvenient and he just didn’t feel like it.
Jesus could not ignore her pleas for compassion and help because
that would have been against his nature – and so we thank God for that love,
for that compassion, concern and the power of healing, but today we also thank
God for the woman who was persistent, and for people throughout the world of
the past and of today who push for what is good and what is right, and who are
prepared to kneel at the feet of Jesus and ask for the help that only he can
give.
And we pray that we will be one of those people. AMEN
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